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Give a gift that will change a life


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Give a gift that will change a life. Recovery Coaching from Motivate 4 Success helps you start each day on a positive note. Teaching fabulous tools for emotionally lightening your loadhttp://holiday.motivate4success.com)
• Keeping life simple,
• Taking the time to enjoy the good things,
• Letting go of the people and thoughts that keep you from enjoying each and every day.

Motivate 4 Success may just be the catalyst to change that lasts a life time. Recovery Coaching is a fabulous gift for anyone that is:
• Having a struggle with day to day living
 • Depressed, anxious,
• Problems with Addiction
• Social isolation
• Alone or separated from family

At Motivate 4 Success and Senior Motivate 4 Success we take the time to listen and observe, helping individuals find their own solutions and live life on life's terms. This year brings a new stress with the financial markets in chaos. Our coaches are here to help you focus on the good things. Those areas you can control, and find the joy the holidays really are about. Check out our special holiday page. And sign up today before all the space is taken! (http://holiday.motivate4success.com)

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Problems with addiction, compulsion, obsession, depression, anxiety, eating
Someone you know needs help, co dependency
Seniors, adult children, care givers Lifestyle Change,

Call us any time at (949) 375 - 2676 and talk to a real coach about your specific situation, we offer a no cost discovery session where you can learn for yourself how coaching can benefit you or someone you love. Call today! Wishing you the best of the season! The Coaches of Motivate 4 Success and Senior Motivate 4 Success

HOLIDAY PROGRAM

The Holiday Program from
Motivate 4 Success


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“But you don’t understand, I have to be home for the Holidays!”

Unfortunately, the Recovery Coaches at Motivate 4 Success do understand that home is where a myriad of problems, triggers, underlying issues and behavior patterns remain.

You have Options;

You can:

Make list of everything you should do.

Outline everything you could do.

Listen to others tell you what you they would do.

Or you can find the people, that will give you the leverage you need to put a plan into action! This is what we do, let us help you this holiday!

 

What are the details?
           
HOLIDAY PROGRAM FROM MOTIVATE 4 SUCCESS

                   Cost is $25 per day (Maximum is 10 days)

                   Coach is unique to the individual,

                   Coach makes a 20 minute call everyday.  

          Each call starts with an attitude check, and focus in living in today. 
“What’s good about today,
          What is your goal for the day,
                                      What are you grateful for today.”

But that’s not all,   Emergency Sessions are Included!

Your work with a specific coach that is available 24/7!  Issues arise at all hours of the day and night, Recovery Coaches from Motivate 4 Success are an ally that is available when you need them.

 

We had a fabulous result last year, and have expanded the program this year. 
Space is limited to first come first Serve.  Guarantee your clients space now!
ØØThanksgiving Holiday limited space left,
call for availability (949) 375-2676.
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Christmas/New Years Space is Limited.
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Antidepressants are worthless for most people

Antidepressants are worthless for most people, according to research published in the journal Public Library of Science: Medicine. Looking at the results of 35 clinical trials in the U.S. for drugs including Prozac, researchers at the University of Hull in Britain found that placebos were equally effective in nearly all cases. Exercise and therapy should be prescribed in preference to drugs except for "severely depressed patients," they conclude. To read it, go to www.plos.org/journals/index.php. Scroll down and click on "PLoS: Medicine."

Stop helping the drug companies make more money, and you keep getting sicker!

There is no immediate overnight fix.  Try the alternatives, see what works

Step 10 - Radio Broadcast

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Phone Calls from Rehab

Phone Calls from Rehab

“He’s upset I didn’t come to the family time at rehab.”

Anyone ever hear this? He is upset that you didn’t come to visit. or She is upset that you didn’t come to visit. My heaven’s, how could you! Don’t you love them? Don’t you care? They are stuck there for 28 days! They have to make their beds and go to groups and one on one counseling. Don’t you know you are part of the problem!

If you are buying into this, then take a deep breadth and remember, why he is there.

Read the ad words “lush rolling hills … walking trails, streams and an abundance of wildlife including moose, deer, birds,recreational options and facilities including:

  • tennis courts
  • a volleyball court
  • a basketball court
  • art room
  • a fitness center within the building
  • a recreation room with ping pong, pool table, TVs and more
  • Wave runners
  • Kayaking
  • Pool and jacuzzi
  • Gourmet Meals

He or she is not in County Lock up. They will survive, and have a wonderful staff of counselors. Enjoy the calm serenity of a house without an addict/alcoholic in it. Enjoy meals with your children, and time with them. Take a moment and reflect on how many times they have made you feel this way. Your addict or alcoholic is in a good place. They have people to work through this with, who do you have?

Family and friends need to let go and heal. Your being present is absolutely meaningless if they cannot learn to see beyond themselves. The longer they stay in this environment, the better chance they have of coming home and being the wife,son,mother,father or whatever title. You need to take care of you. Take this time and get yourself into a program of recovery.

Call a coach today and learn to work through the issues that you need to before he/she comes home. Everything has to change, especially your tolerance for their behavior. Call a Coach today and start on the special journey of recovery devoted to families and friends impacted by addictive behavior. Click here for more information Recovery Coaching from Motivate 4 Success


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Check out the new yahoo ad for Yahoo personals!!

 

The tag lines float in and out …

“I don’t always look before I leap”

“Just do not laugh too hard when I fall”

“That’s happiness to me”

Sara, Denver CO

 

The visual: a young woman, working in a bar, Martini shaker in hand, pouring one more.  These tag lines, and that visual easily transfers to

I’m a drunk who is looking for love.  One night stands okay. 

 

Check it out, would you really want to date someone that says,

Just don’t laugh to hard when I fall?

Amends how when where

Check out this weeks broadcast on Blogtalk radio Step 9 Is the focus and we are joined by Keith Bray, and gain his insight on living in recovery and using this step, the results and the motivation. Listen Now! Listen to Motivate 4 Success on internet talk radio Get to know Keith at hopeserenity. ca/ Coach

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From Treatment to Home– Now what?

Aftercare is a real part of Addiction treatment. The good news is you can go home! Recovery Coaching from Motivate 4 Success needs to be a foundational piece to your returning home.  Coaching helps the addict and the family transition into this phase of sobriety.
 

Watching Intervention from A&E, your family came up with this great idea for you to have an intervention.  They packed your bags and shipped you off to a treatment facility 3,000 miles from home. Perhaps your first week wasn’t all that fun, but after 20 or 30 days you realized that you were feeling better, looking better, and thinking better.  The reality may have come to you that this plushy; ocean view treatment facility is a whole lot nicer than the filthy apartment you were living in.  Rather than finding a way to stay alive, eat, and get high, you’re now reflecting on your life up to now and the choices you have made.  Everyone around you is talking about sobriety, and dancing on their new found spiritualism.
 

Some one else is responsible for your meals, how you spend your day, where you go, who you talk to.  It’s fabulous!  The world has been lifted off your shoulders.  Imagine, there are people just like you that haven’t got a clue how to live in a world without drugs and alcohol.  Wow, there are people who have stayed clean and sober for years, decades even, and they seem happy and like they are walking on the top of the world.  The sun is shinning and each day is sunshine.  Your family talks with you and are proud of you and all you have accomplished! 

 
Your counselors are the confidants you needed to help you work through all your issues, but you are not from here.  Your parents paid for 90 days, the money has run out, and now you need to go home.  All your sober friends are here.  This little pristine world is here.  The reality hits you between the eyes; your gut starts to turn.  You want to go home, you want to live a normal life, see your family, and see your friends.  Torn between two worlds, a group of new friends who never new you using, or family and friends that have only known you as a user, liar and a cheat. 

 
Leaving treatment is a difficult time.  Aftercare is a real part of Addiction treatment.  Here are just a few real statistics

 FIVE SOBERING FACTS

1.  More than half of people completing addiction treatment will relapse on alcohol or other drugs in the 1st year. 

2.  The first 30-90 days following discharge is the window of greatest vulnerability for relapse after treatment.

3.  Between 25-35% of people who complete addiction treatment will be readmitted to treatment within one year, and 50% will be readmitted within five years.

4.  Recovery is not fully stabilized (point at which risk of future lifetime relapse drops below 15%) until four to five years of sustained recovery.

5.  Relapses following addiction treatment produce higher death rates from accidental poisoning/overdose, AIDS, suicide and homicide, cardiovascular and liver disease.

The good news is you can go home!  The better news is you can maintain your sobriety where ever you live.  Going through this part of the transformation from a life of addiction to a life of sobriety is difficult.  Your first consideration before leaving treatment should be who will be calling you, not just random calls, but structured and daily for a minimum of 14 days while you settle in.  This is an integral part of the Recovery program from Motivate 4 Success.  In those first 14 days, individuals find themselves completely separated from everything and everyone they have known in sobriety.  Your old friends and colleagues appear to look at you differently.  The smells, sounds, and sensations are all changed from what you know in sobriety. 

Two things are highly apparent; in sobriety, you do not know how to really talk to people who are not in a program, and the people that you have known, do not know the sober you.  While you were in treatment you have made dramatic changes to your personality.  You have changed.  You are not the same person, and they need to get to know you all over again. 

You have the skills to stay sober, but you do not have the experience of dealing with your past.  The people, places and events, you had created while you were using.  It can be done.  It is not that difficult, working with a coach, you will learn this new skill set and be able to create new relationships with the people that love you. The people that love you need to learn to accept and understand the new you.  You have been given the gift of sobriety.  They haven’t had the option to learn recovery.  Help each other; make sure you have solid foundational support for yourself and your family.  Above all else, remember it is progress, not perfection.

 


 

 

What you need to ask about treatment

  • Treatment for addiction to alcohol and other drugs must be tailored to fit the person.
  • Treatment programs should be able to give you information, including data, that explains what they do and what their success rates are.
  • Be cautious about treatment programs that make fantastic promises.

Although beginning a treatment program is a stressful time for an addicted person and his or her family, it is an important moment to ask many questions. Try to learn as much as you can about the treatment philosophy and approach before entering a program.

Be cautious about a program that:

  • promises 24-hour detox - this rapid detoxification can be dangerous, even fatal
  • promises rapid recovery - experts believe that meaningful treatment usually takes at least 90 days, sometimes much longer
  • uses a treatment approach that's based on shaming and berating the patient - while this approach was once widely accepted, experts now see that it is not the most effective approach, and that this shaming can actually increase the chances for relapse
  • simply ousts a patient who relapses, rather than works to identify the triggers and underlying issues that put the patient at risk.
  • cannot give you information on its track record: What proportion of the patients successfully complete the program? What proportion of the patients sustain long-term recovery?
  • does not have accredited caregivers
  • employs clinicians or counselors who believe that the same plan works for people addicted to alcohol, marijuana, opiates, and stimulants

Remember that drug and alcohol treatment is not a one-size-fits-all experience. Treatments vary widely according to the addictive substance, the existence of co-occurring illnesses, the age, gender and cultural background of the patient and many other variables.