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Listen to Coach Chez Now!Unfortunately, the Recovery
Coaches at Motivate 4 Success do understand that home is where a myriad of
problems, triggers, underlying issues and behavior patterns remain.
You can:
Make list of everything you should do.
Outline everything you could do.
Listen to others tell you what you they would do.
Or you can find the
people, that will give you the leverage you need to put a plan into action!
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Coach is unique to the
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“What’s good about today,
What is your goal for the day,
What
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“He’s upset I didn’t come to the family time at rehab.”
Anyone ever hear this? He is upset that you didn’t come to visit. or She is upset that you didn’t come to visit. My heaven’s, how could you! Don’t you love them? Don’t you care? They are stuck there for 28 days! They have to make their beds and go to groups and one on one counseling. Don’t you know you are part of the problem!
If you are buying into this, then take a deep breadth and remember, why he is there.
Read the ad words “lush rolling hills … walking trails, streams and an abundance of wildlife including moose, deer, birds,recreational options and facilities including:
He or she is not in County Lock up. They will survive, and have a wonderful staff of counselors. Enjoy the calm serenity of a house without an addict/alcoholic in it. Enjoy meals with your children, and time with them. Take a moment and reflect on how many times they have made you feel this way. Your addict or alcoholic is in a good place. They have people to work through this with, who do you have?
Family and friends need to let go and heal. Your being present is absolutely meaningless if they cannot learn to see beyond themselves. The longer they stay in this environment, the better chance they have of coming home and being the wife,son,mother,father or whatever title. You need to take care of you. Take this time and get yourself into a program of recovery.
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Aftercare is a real part of Addiction treatment. The good news is you can go home! Recovery Coaching from
Motivate 4 Success needs to be a foundational piece to your returning
home. Coaching helps the addict and the
family transition into this phase of sobriety.
Watching Intervention from A&E, your family came up with
this great idea for you to have an intervention. They packed your bags and shipped you off to
a treatment facility 3,000 miles from home. Perhaps your first week wasn’t all
that fun, but after 20 or 30 days you realized that you were feeling better,
looking better, and thinking better. The
reality may have come to you that this plushy; ocean view treatment facility is
a whole lot nicer than the filthy apartment you were living in. Rather than finding a way to stay alive, eat,
and get high, you’re now reflecting on your life up to now and the choices you
have made. Everyone around you is
talking about sobriety, and dancing on their new found spiritualism.
Some one else is responsible for your meals, how you spend your day, where you go, who you talk to. It’s fabulous! The world has been lifted off your shoulders. Imagine, there are people just like you that haven’t got a clue how to live in a world without drugs and alcohol. Wow, there are people who have stayed clean and sober for years, decades even, and they seem happy and like they are walking on the top of the world. The sun is shinning and each day is sunshine. Your family talks with you and are proud of you and all you have accomplished!
Your counselors are the confidants you needed to help you
work through all your issues, but you are not from here. Your parents paid for 90 days, the money has
run out, and now you need to go home.
All your sober friends are here.
This little pristine world is here.
The reality hits you between the eyes; your gut starts to turn. You want to go home, you want to live a
normal life, see your family, and see your friends. Torn between two worlds, a group of new
friends who never new you using, or family and friends that have only known you
as a user, liar and a cheat.
Leaving treatment is a difficult time. Aftercare is a real part of Addiction
treatment. Here are just a few real
statistics
1. More than half of people
completing addiction treatment will relapse on alcohol or other drugs in the
1st year.
2. The first 30-90 days
following discharge is the window of greatest vulnerability for relapse after
treatment.
3. Between 25-35% of people
who complete addiction treatment will be readmitted to treatment within one
year, and 50% will be readmitted within five years.
4. Recovery is not fully
stabilized (point at which risk of future lifetime relapse drops below 15%)
until four to five
years of sustained recovery.
5. Relapses following addiction
treatment produce higher death rates from accidental poisoning/overdose, AIDS,
suicide and homicide, cardiovascular and liver disease.
The good news is
you can go home! The better news is you
can maintain your sobriety where ever you live.
Going through this part of the transformation from a life of addiction
to a life of sobriety is difficult. Your
first consideration before leaving treatment should be who will be calling you,
not just random calls, but structured and daily for a minimum of 14 days while
you settle in. This is an integral part
of the Recovery program from Motivate 4 Success. In those first 14 days, individuals find
themselves completely separated from everything and everyone they have known in
sobriety. Your old friends and
colleagues appear to look at you differently.
The smells, sounds, and sensations are all changed from what you know in
sobriety.
Two things are
highly apparent; in sobriety, you do not know how to really talk to people who
are not in a program, and the people that you have known, do not know the sober
you. While you were in treatment you
have made dramatic changes to your personality.
You have changed. You are not the
same person, and they need to get to know you all over again.
You have the
skills to stay sober, but you do not have the experience of dealing with your
past. The people, places and events, you
had created while you were using. It can
be done. It is not that difficult,
working with a coach, you will learn this new skill set and be able to create
new relationships with the people that love you. The people that love you need
to learn to accept and understand the new you.
You have been given the gift of sobriety. They haven’t had the option to learn
recovery. Help each other; make sure you
have solid foundational support for yourself and your family. Above all else, remember it is progress, not
perfection.
Although beginning a treatment program is a stressful time for an addicted person and his or her family, it is an important moment to ask many questions. Try to learn as much as you can about the treatment philosophy and approach before entering a program.
Be cautious about a program that:
Remember that drug and alcohol treatment is not a one-size-fits-all experience. Treatments vary widely according to the addictive substance, the existence of co-occurring illnesses, the age, gender and cultural background of the patient and many other variables.